Happy Mother's Day To My Awesome Mother In Law !

Happy Mother's Day to my mother in law Janice Masters. Thank you for raising the most beautiful woman in the world my Valerie Geis Horosz and for your love for us and your family. Praying God's blessings over you not only today but everyday .

Happy Mother's Day Mom !

Happy Mother's Day in heaven to the best mom in the world. Your love for me knew no bounds. Thank you for all you did for me. Thank you also for being the best grandmother to Will Horosz Victoria Horosz and Peter Horosz and best mother in law to my precious Valerie Geis Horosz and for loving Jessica Bailey. You void is a place that can only be filled by fond memories and by all of us loving each other. Miss you greatly ! "Love you ! Love you !".

Six Years Ago Today

Six years ago today I boarded Southwest flight 2562 from Columbus OH to Tampa FL to meet a woman who I had met through Christian Mingle. We would spend an average of 3 to 4 hours on the phone talking to each other and it was safe to say we knew quite a bit about each other. I had been down this road before as I had criss crossed the United States (I was an A list member on Southwest). But something felt very different this time. I felt a sense of joy and peace that was indescribable.

When I saw her walking from her car I dropped to my knees and said "Thank you Jesus" ! At 7:08 PM I met Valerie Geis Horosz my soul mate, best friend, and love of my life :)

Pictures that she had sent did not do her justice - she was truly drop dead gorgeous. The next evening I got to meet my beautiful step daughter Jessica Bailey. Two days latter I got to meet most of her wonderful family including Val's incredible and awesome parents Dave & Janice Masters. Her mom told me that I had only begun to tap that heart of gold of Val's.

15 days latter we were married. I thank God for her every minute of every day. Thank you for continuing to make me the most blessed man on this earth ! Love you beyond words <3 font=""> #TeamHorosz

Happy New Year 2017

Wishing all my friends a safe, healthy, and blessed New Years 2017 !

Use and practice these words more often in 2017: love, joy, peace, encouragement, gentleness, patience, kindness.

Pray without ceasing.

Worship wherever you are.

Read God's word.

Be a friend.

Enjoy family.

Encourage, support, and love your children.

Take care of the temple that God has given you.

Tell your spouse, children, and family that you love them.

Set attainable and realistic goals for yourself.

2016 Highlights.

In January I had my first colonoscopy. No polyps and I don't need another one for 5 years ! PTL !

In February Valerie and I celebrated our fifth wedding anniversary. Every day with her is better than the day before. I am truly the most blessed man in the world.

Peter was able to find a good job in food service at a time assisted living facility here in Brandon.

In late March we drove down to Bradenton and caught a Pirates spring training game. It was a very chilly day with a high in the upper 40's but I did get to see some former Pirates greats including Manny Sanguillen.

In June we flew up twice to Pittsburgh to attend Game 1 & Game 5 of the Stanley Cup Finals. There was a special tribute to veterans during Game 1 and I was proud to have represented my late father who served his country during World War II. We snuck in a trip to Columbus to see Victoria & Andy.

July I completed my second year at Publix Supermarkets. This is by far the best job I have ever had with the best manager I have ever had. With God’s blessings I would love to retire from here.

Had my first nuclear stress test and I passed.

Flew up to Columbus on the last day of August for Victoria's ankle surgery which went very well.

We took a third trip to Pittsburgh in November for my 40th Steel Valley High School reunion at Westwood Country Club. It was the best reunion by far as I got to show off my beautiful Valerie to all of my high school friends. We danced to the song 'Valerie' by Steve Winwood and a friend took a priceless picture of us.

We are thanking the Lord that Victoria's fiance Andy survived a devastating accident and is now home and on the road to recovery.

Christmas day we celebrated by having a brunch with Will & Peter, exchanged gifts, watched the original " Die Hard", watched the thrilling Steelers win, enjoyed dinner with Will, Peter, and Jessica, and capped off the day by watching the original "Home Alone". What a blast !

Celebrated New Year's Eve by watching the Penguins win in overtime.

Some scripture I’d like to share:

“Honor your father and your mother, as the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live long and that it may go well with you in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” Deuteronomy 5:16

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

“16 Rejoice always, 17 pray continually, 18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

“But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet.” 1 Thessalonians 5:8
 “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:13

No New Year's Resolution For 2017

No New Year's Resolution for me for 2017. 

What this year has taught me is to laugh more, love more, and enjoy my family everyday. It comes naturally. And in order to laugh, love, and enjoy for a long time I'm going to get the exercise I need and eat food that is healthy, not sweat the small stuff, and worship the Lord.

What are your thoughts ?

Christmas Presence

Growing up my parents helped make the Christmas season a special time of year for me. From the incredible decorations and tree put up with artistic precision by my father to getting Christmas cards sent out by mom to the wonderful smell of fresh baked apricot and nut cookies to delicious mushroom soup made by my father. The Christmas Eve service at a packed church with a beautiful rendition of 'Oh Holy Night' that took you back to the manager. Having friends and family over after service at my parents house was joyous. Cookies, hors d'oeuvres, drinks, music and laughter ruled the evening. Christmas morning was incredible. The magic of opening gifts wrapped with the utmost care by my father brought a big smile to my face. And when I got older the joy of giving mom& dad gifts equaled then exceeded what I received. Then I enjoyed going to church on Christmas morning. Later in the afternoon we would head up to my aunts with what one could only describe as a decadent feast. My aunt could out cook anyone on the Food Network. Ham melted in you mouth. The most moist turkey you ever had. Chicken soup with homemade noodles. Apple and pumpkin pies that made you always want a second piece. After we went home I always fell asleep with a smile on my face. I was blessed that all three of my children were able to experience this as well. With all that being said my parents always made sure the focus was on the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Fast forward to today. My parents and my aunts and uncles have passed away. Unfortunately the last time I spoke with my cousins was three years ago when my mom passed. I have resigned myself to the fact that we probably will never get together again and that saddens me a great deal.

In 2011 my life took the best turn possible when I met and married my soul mate Valerie Geis Horosz. Soon after that God blessed me with employment after looking for three years and in 2014 God saw fit to bless me with the best job ever in IT with Publix Supermarkets. We also were blessed with Will & Peter moving to Brandon and enjoy seeing them.

I can't say enough about Valerie's parents. I see both my parents in both of them and Im truly blessed to have them in my life. They really do make me feel loved and a part of the family.

My wife truly enjoys decorating the house for Christmas. Lights, decorations, garland, battery candles, and a beautiful tree with ornaments made by my dad. It looks fantastic !
But for myself the past couple of years it's almost been a chore for me. Decorating, music and the season felt hollow. Gifts are nice and my wife does exceptional with what she gets me. But something was missing.

A few weeks ago I found out through a Facebook post that one of my cousins passed away. It really hit me hard. When I sent a sympathy card to her husband I remembered what he told me three years ago when my mom passed away - "we never hear from anyone anymore". It all makes sense now.

I wanted so desperately to recreate what my parents had. But I've come to the realization its gone. For one reason or another my family has splintered into their own units - with brothers and sisters only. Despite attempts to reach out to my cousins they have not responded.
It's up to Valerie and I to make memories for our children to enjoy and remember. That's why we have a celebration of Christmas at a nice restaurant for all of our children to enjoy ahead of Christmas. Christmas Day we exchange gifts then go out for Christmas dinner to make sure our children know how special they are to us.

The best part of Christmas to me is not presents but presence - the presence of Christ in our hearts and in our home.

Merry Christmas !

Happy New Year 2016

Wishing all my friends a safe, healthy, and blessed New Years 2016 !

Use and practice these words more often in 2016: love, joy, peace, encouragement, gentleness, patience, kindness.

Pray without ceasing.
Worship wherever you are.
Read God's word.
Be a friend.
Enjoy family.
Encourage, support, and love your children.
Take care of the temple that God has given you.
Tell your spouse, children, and family that you love them.
Set attainable and realistic goals for yourself.

2015 Highlights.

In February Valerie and I celebrated our fourth wedding anniversary. Every day with my beautiful bride is better than the day before. I am truly the most blessed man in the world.

In early March we drove down to Bradenton and caught a Pirates spring training game with Will & Peter. Perfect weather and a beautiful ballpark.

Mid-March we celebrated one year in our new house. We are thankful for God blessing us with a nice place to live.

In late March we travelled to Pittsburgh to catch two Penguins games, pay respect to mom and dad’s graves, and take a day trip to see our beautiful Victoria Horosz & Andy Skaggs.

We were pleasantly surprised as my dad’s grave finally had a marker from the United States Navy. We also found one of our favorite burger places called Burgatory.

We hosted Valerie’s family for her dad’s birthday. We had a blast. Her dad was very animated and makes me smile every time I think of him.

July I completed my first year at Publix Supermarkets. This is by far the best job I have ever had with the best manager I have ever had. With God’s blessings I would love to retire from here.

Will and Peter moved into a two bedroom apartment almost right across the road from where Will works.

Had oral surgery in April to remove my third tooth since moving down to Florida.

Valerie and I had the pleasure of attending a Stanley Cup Final’s Game here in Tampa. In spite of losing we had a lot of fun.

We took a second trip to Pittsburgh in September for my 35th reunion at Geneva College. It was the best reunion by far as I got to show off my beautiful Valerie to all of my college friends. Lots of sharing, laughter, and fun.

The church we had attended back in 2011 (Crossing Church) started Saturday afternoon services which fit perfectly into our schedule and lifestyle. Rock solid teaching not above or below you but meeting you right where you are.

Passed the Technician Class exam for a Ham Radio License.

Mid December we flew Victoria down for a weekend. I took her shopping to Kohl’s, visited Moreno’s Bakery, enjoyed seeing It’s A Wonderful Life at the Tampa Theater and capped it off with a family dinner at Maggiano’s.

Christmas day we celebrated by continuing our tradition of eating out by going to “Spinners” at St. Pete Brach – a revolving restaurant. Food was excellent and the views were magnificent including a beautiful sunset.

Celebrated New Year's Eve with Will & Peter by watching two Star War's movies.

Some scripture I’d like to share:

“Honor your father and your mother, as the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live long and that it may go well with you in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” Deuteronomy 5:16

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

“16 Rejoice always, 17 pray continually, 18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

“But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet.” 1 Thessalonians 5:8

 “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:13